“Resentment is like drinking poison and
then hoping
it will kill your enemies.”
Nelson Mandela
Forgiving
is an art that only few people are truly able to master it regardless of any barriers
in front of them, Oprah Winfrey, the well-known American television show,
actress and entrepreneur says “True forgiveness
is when you can say, “Thank you for that experience”. That is, she affirmed that the real forgiveness is when
learning from the experiences we were through as a result throwing away all the
anger and hate inside of us toward what we experienced, as a result getting
definitely the peace and joy from freeing totally ourselves from those negative
feelings and thoughts. It’s true that sometimes it’s hard to forgive especially
if it comes to someone special did something unforgivable , however the fact of
being aware of how much pain we do make to ourselves because of those emotions
of anger we will surely forgive that person immediately since when are strongly
attached to that negative experience so that having much negative energy and
always staying hold to past experience as a consequence forgetting our present
, our life and our pure self , a self-full of love , joy , happiness and positivity
but only focusing in negativity . In other words, ignoring forgiveness turn the
person into another one, completely different full of hate and anger. Moreover,
Ibrahim Elfiky , a doctor in self-development field confirms “ "The power of love and forgiveness
in our life can make miracles", he affirmed that to forgive means to attract miracles to
your life and that comes when you mostly free yourself from any negative
thought toward anyone you have gone
through a bad experience with and genuinely cut of your thinking with the past .
As a result, you become your true version which surely permits you attract more
positive events into your life due to the positive feelings and thinking, full
of forgiveness, peace and love.
