The Art of Forgiveness

“Resentment is like drinking poison and then hoping

it will kill  your enemies.”
Nelson Mandela

Forgiving is an art that only few people are truly able to master it regardless of any barriers in front of them, Oprah Winfrey, the well-known American television show, actress and entrepreneur says “True forgiveness is when you can say, “Thank you for that experience”. That is, she affirmed that the real forgiveness is when learning from the experiences we were through as a result throwing away all the anger and hate inside of us toward what we experienced, as a result getting definitely the peace and joy from freeing totally ourselves from those negative feelings and thoughts. It’s true that sometimes it’s hard to forgive especially if it comes to someone special did something unforgivable , however the fact of being aware of how much pain we do make to ourselves because of those emotions of anger we will surely forgive that person immediately since when are strongly attached to that negative experience so that having much negative energy and always staying hold to past experience as a consequence forgetting our present , our life and our pure self , a self-full of love , joy , happiness and positivity but only focusing in negativity . In other words, ignoring forgiveness turn the person into another one, completely different full of hate and anger. Moreover, Ibrahim Elfiky , a doctor in self-development field confirms “ "The power of love and forgiveness in our life can make miracles", he affirmed that to forgive means to attract miracles to your life and that comes when you mostly free yourself from any negative thought  toward anyone you have gone through a bad experience with and genuinely cut of your thinking with the past . As a result, you become your true version which surely permits you attract more positive events into your life due to the positive feelings and thinking, full of forgiveness, peace and love.